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why do you like kinfolk? do you in any way see it a reproducing a certain racial ideas of hospitality?
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Thanks so much for the question! And a great one at that.

I like Kinfolk for its beckoning back to something that we (myself from Anglo-Saxon descent) have forgotten or tucked away: the art of gathering.

The blind-spot of Kinfolk Magazine and others’ writing and working in hospitality is often the ignorance that most non-western cultures, or specifically, non-American cultures are still gathering in beautiful ways. In fact, gathering is so integral to these cultures, languages, and cuisines.

Kinfolk has a few Asian-Americans and African-Americans, but this collection of ‘gathering artists’ is predominantly middle class, educated, artsy, white folks.  Kinfolk could broaden it’s coverage of hospitality/gathering in other cultures, which is does briefly and will have to do more in the future (after all, we can only see so many canoe picnics w/ flannel and Opinel knives before we get bored…), but if we glance at Kinfolk and others like it as a movement of art, it may be more difficult to critique.

We could critique modernism for lacking non-Western Europeans, but the movement, mentality, and art was birthed out of a time and place.  The geography and chronology are a part of the ideas and life that was brought forth.

For the ‘Kinfolk movement’, we find a generation drowning in Facebook and social media longing for a connection of old; a drawing back into the wisdom and value of simple, tasteful, hosting and sharing in community.

So in many ways, I find the ‘Kinfolk movement’ as a rekindling of old, not an exclusive new wave of ‘hispterdom’.

Hospitality.
We love to re-blog, re-pin, re-tweet, re-share (?)…but when it comes down to actually doing it, we find it far more difficult.
Setting the table is fun. Making food for 50 people can be stressful.
Crafting the menu can be an artistic delight. Cleaning up the dishes can be laborious. 
Selecting the guest list is a delicate art.  Actually wanting to talk to some of those guests can be sheer work.
Hospitality. It’s messy, it’s tiring, it’s noisy, it’s rude, it’s obstrusive, to say the least.
And yet, it is beautiful and the center of how we understand life, faith, and love.
We wish to spend time with people so we invite them to dine, to party, and to slumber.  This is the way we connect, disconnect, and then find the courage to love and re-connect.
So when we are drooling over the latest Kinfolk Magazine, Pinterest post of Whole Larder Love (featured above), or ruminations of that loveliest dinner on a Brooklyn rooftop; let us remember the sacrifice, time, hard-work, and humility that is required to truly express hospitality, not neglecting the tremendous joy and celebration that is reaped, but remembering all the seeds that must first be sewn in practicing hospitality.
-M. Case (Excerpt from: On Hospitality)
What is most difficult and most joyous for you in practicing hospitality? View high resolution

Hospitality.

We love to re-blog, re-pin, re-tweet, re-share (?)…but when it comes down to actually doing it, we find it far more difficult.

Setting the table is fun. Making food for 50 people can be stressful.

Crafting the menu can be an artistic delight. Cleaning up the dishes can be laborious. 

Selecting the guest list is a delicate art.  Actually wanting to talk to some of those guests can be sheer work.

Hospitality. It’s messy, it’s tiring, it’s noisy, it’s rude, it’s obstrusive, to say the least.

And yet, it is beautiful and the center of how we understand life, faith, and love.

We wish to spend time with people so we invite them to dine, to party, and to slumber.  This is the way we connect, disconnect, and then find the courage to love and re-connect.

So when we are drooling over the latest Kinfolk Magazine, Pinterest post of Whole Larder Love (featured above), or ruminations of that loveliest dinner on a Brooklyn rooftop; let us remember the sacrifice, time, hard-work, and humility that is required to truly express hospitality, not neglecting the tremendous joy and celebration that is reaped, but remembering all the seeds that must first be sewn in practicing hospitality.

-M. Case (Excerpt from: On Hospitality)

What is most difficult and most joyous for you in practicing hospitality?

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Love this.