Kerry pointed out that I missed 4 points, so here they are for the two people on Tumblr who read these redonkulous posts.
10 things desired in a woman (part 2: desires 7-10)
*Adventure and Appetite:
A gal that is passionate for travelling, learning languages, getting lost, and spontaneous road trips to Chicago in the middle of the night is one that will surely capture my heart. And a gal that loves to eat? Don’t get me started. I am a foodie and understand people and cultures through grub and enjoy variety. A passion for cooking, baking, and exploring fun unknown restaurants and cafes is a huge plus.
*Kats and Kids:
Yes, I realize that cats doesn’t start with a K, but I was trying to roll with the alliteration. I haven’t fully made up my mind about k(c)ats, so it’s a must that you (you being my gal) can bear with me through this processing and repressed memories. As for kids, I love them and hopefully you do too. Life would be pretty boring without them…
Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of “Matt needs a date for prom…Valentine’s Day …Thursday”
Anonymous, I thought you would never ask!
In no shallow order:
*The Scent & Sight of a Woman:
A simple, warm, and inviting scent is all it takes to win me over, if I’m honest. Seriously, though. It can be as easy as a Bounce dryer sheet. As for sight, please be yourself. I could care less about the latest Bean Boot trend and rather see you rockin’ chucks with passion. And a gal with a breathtaking smile? You had me at hello. Be comfortable. Be lovely. Be yourself.
*Bindings and Beats:
A well read and music-lovin’ gal is quite appealing. Please have read things other than Mitch Alborn and Stephenie Meye. And please enjoy artists other than Taylor Swift. A gal that mouths the lyrics to No Diggity across from the Neil Gaiman party is a sure to win my heart.
*Poets and Prophets:
A gal who enjoys poetry or is simply poetic in life is quite lovely. I write a lot of crappy poetry so a woman that can tell me when it sucks and tell me when it’s great all with grace is a winner. And a gal with a heart for fulfilling God’s desire to live life to the fullest makes me quite happy.
Hope this answers your question. I’m available for office hours/coffee/dates on Thursdays…
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I wish more gals wore hats. That is all…
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On Desiring a Woman.
You don’t have to be a model. You don’t have to be a professor. But you have to be passionate and pursuing. And I say this not about me (although I would hope you are passionate and pursuing of me), but for the world. For adventure. For learning. For creating. For caring. For love. And for Love.
That is all I seek.




